Why I will never take birth control pills or recommend them.


You probably have met many women and young girls on birth control pills. Let’s be real here, it is one of the most popular method of birth control in the entire United Kingdom because they are dished out like sweets by doctors. No offence to doctors, but its seems like that at times. However, I …

5 factors that may reduce your chances of getting pregnant.


Most women look forward to becoming mums at some point in their lives, I know I did and i'm so thankful for motherhood. With this in mind, infertility may dash that beautiful dream for some women, which can be very frustrating and soul destroying. There are a number of factors that can cause female infertility, …

I don’t give a Sh*t is the new self love.


Do you know what, I have just realised that I have been living my life taking so much crap. Undermining my self worth; Basically walking around pleasing people like I have all the time in the world!  So isn't that supposed to be selflessness? Servant heart? Or one of those fancy words we use to …

How to be a badass single mum and stay winning.


Just to make you aware that It was never in my plans of life to become a single parent. Life handed me a lemon and I don't even like lemons.  I have been a single mother to my 3 lovely children for slightly over 10 years now.  I have made some astounding mistakes, punched my …

I am Celibate with a small chance of cheekiness.


I have talked very openly about my celibacy as a huge drive in my spiritual growth and even left myself vulnerable to self-righteous religious folks to criticise and devour every time I acted normal . And oh! What's normal? Erm... you know like a little cheeky adult jokes or even thinking that Dev Patel is …

Why single parents must pray for their children.


Last Sunday I shared a video on my YouTube channel talking about why I pray for my children a lot more than an average mother and of course urging other single mamas to pray more for their children. My video will tell you more but I will explain to you here why I felt the …

My Spiritual level up: the Daniel fast.


So I am definitely and unashamedly feeling my spiritual self. By this time last year, I was having sex outside marriage, prayed very little and completely put Yahweh at the back burner of my life. To the glory of God, I have literally gone from a clueless Christian to one who is totally hungry for …

Black women, weaves and lack of exercise. Count me out bruv!


Having hated wearing wigs and weaves and always dreaded running or going to the gym due to sweatiness and of course that awful itchiness of the scalp that follows, I am chuffed with my fresh cut. I feel free, sexy, youthful and there's also a sudden surge of energy and vibrancy in my spirit, it's …

I didn’t know that I was hungry till I tasted you!


Hi everyone! Did you miss me?  (Oh please say yes) I am totally excited to be back here. Actually another blogger I met in my church reminded me of how much I have missed this beautiful community. It's been so long since I disappeared from the scene to focus on mending few leaking roofs of …